Day 23:
Pick Something Small Off Your Life List.
Start with something simple;
something that can be accomplished in a month’s time.
For example, I can’t throw a national election in a month’s
time (sigh). I can’t go
live in Europe within the next month or two.
I can learn to cook five decent meals.
I can do that on Saturdays and maybe one or two extra days.
Take a look at your life list.
Can you train for a marathon in a month?
No. You can start training for that marathon, but that is not
going to be your main focus this month.
You can’t lose thirty pounds in a month, at least in a healthy
way. Pick something that is
achievable within a month’s time frame.
Why? I won’t kid
you. If you start with something that you have a fighting chance
to accomplish, won’t that give you a boost of self-confidence and make
you feel like you are up to a slightly bigger challenge? There is nothing wrong with boosting your self-confidence.
Just so long as you use that boost to try to accomplish bigger and
better things.
Is there something not on your life list but it is tugging at either your
heart or your conscience? Is
there something in your life that is making you crazy or making your feel
guilty? For me, right now, it
is a garage-full of boxes that I have moved from place to place and never
sorted through. I feel like I
cannot think clearly and cannot free myself up until I have gone through
those boxes and gotten rid of at least one-third of the accumulated pile
and I am shooting for getting rid of one-half. Now, cleaning out the garage is not on my life list, believe
me (meeting Tony Bennett is, so if any of you have a connection, I would
be VERY GRATEFUL). However,
cleaning out the garage is something that I can do in one month (with some
effort) and it would really unclutter my life and my brain.
So something like that is okay to choose for your first project.
Don’t make it too easy, but don’t make it impossible either.